About Me

Heyyyyy Friend! My name is Kandice Nelson and I am the founder of BeUChooseU Therapy. I am a strong believer in the power of disclosure and allowing my client's to get to know me like I get to know you all. So here's a little about me, my experiences, and some the reasons behind my why. 

I grew up in a house that was always full—full of people, full of stories, and full of both love and hardship. As the oldest daughter in a family of ten kids—six of whom were adopted from the foster system—I learned early what it meant to care for others. As the oldest daughter, I stepped into a role that blended sisterhood with responsibility, helping to raise and guide my younger siblings. Navigating childhood wasn't easy, but it shaped me into a person who deeply understands resilience, care, and the importance of community. Growing up in a Black family, especially one shaped by trauma, came with complexities. There were wounds—some personal, some cultural—that ran deep. Healing wasn’t something we talked about; it was something we survived. Still, I believe survival isn’t enough—we deserve to thrive. 

I’ve learned that healing is a journey, one that requires unlearning, self-reflection, and an openness to rewrite the narratives passed down through generations. My journey has been about breaking cycles, challenging the silence, and learning what it means to truly heal. I experienced firsthand how the unspoken wounds of the past can weigh heavily on the present. 

Professionally, I have spent years working with children who have experienced childhood trauma, focusing on helping them heal and find their voices. I’ve worked within child welfare, supporting families in crisis and advocating for children’s safety and well-being. In my role in juvenile probation, I’ve worked directly with youth navigating the justice system, helping them break free from cycles of trauma and giving them tools to rebuild their lives.

My experiences have taught me lessons, lessons I carry with me in everything I do. I strive to create spaces for honest conversations and advocate for those who feel unheard, especially in spaces where trauma and identity intersect.  My story is still being written, but one thing is certain: I’m here to turn pain into power, not just for myself, but for those who need it most.